Listen:
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. (1John 4:7)
Reflect:
I tiptoed into my children’s rooms and kissed them goodnight. With mixed feelings I stared at their beautiful sleeping faces, so sweet and peaceful. All I could think of was how impatient I’d been that day when all three needed me at once, and how much I longed for quiet during the afternoon play hours. Ugh! Guilt. How would these children survive me, such an imperfect mom? I remember sitting with my dad one day, confessing my short-comings and asking for his wisdom. His words were unexpected but so life giving. He said, “Just love them! You’ll make lots of mistakes in parenting. It’s impossible to get it perfect, but you can love them…and, loving matters!”
The truth of these words has stayed with me over the years and guided me faithfully through many situations where I have felt inadequate. Entering the prayer room, counseling office, or even having breakfast with a friend, I always wish I had more to offer in the way of wisdom and healing “know how”. Do you ever feel that way? If I could, I would waive magic wand and relieve suffering, but since I cannot I follow compassion to the cross and look up for help!
There in its shadow, I hear God speak a familiar refrain. “Just love them. I Am doing what you cannot but you can love…and loving matters!”
Prayer of Response:
“Thank you, God, for your love. How I need You and depend on Your presence to love well. Give me courage to bear burdens and share suffering. Fill me with Your love, fresh and mighty, for each new day. Amen.”
Questions to Ponder:
- Do you ever feel inadequate when face to face with another’s deep need?
- Do you also need courage to bear burdens and share suffering?
- Have you felt the power of love carry you into the arms of God?
—Submitted by Judy Villanueva
Judy lives with her husband in Colorado, near the kids and grands. She completed her masters at Fuller Theological Seminary, is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Spiritual Director, and writer. Her Bible reflections can be found atlisteningforlove.net)
Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. (1John 4:7)
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